Cardinal Path

Social Media: are you invited to the party?

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A while ago I had the chance to talk about social media ROI at a local event organized by Le Journal des Affaires (in french), a leading publication covering economy, finance and management. As we were approaching the end of the conference, after they’ve been told numerous times to jump right in the lion’s den of Facebook, Twitter and Google+. I took the analogy of a party to demystify and explain some concepts of social media. My intent was to tell them “wait a minute before you trash a party”.

Watch before you trash

Why not learn from real-life situations before jumping on the social media bandwagon? There is a big chance an informal group already exists – either specifically about your brand, or generally about whatever field you are in. The social rules for joining an ongoing party are quite simple:

  • if you don’t know the group of people partying, you go cautiously, watch & learn;
  • you don’t enter the party trying to bring all the attention upon yourself;
  • in conversations, you care about what others have to say, you don’t brag about yourself all the time;
  • genuinely care about others, and remember, the worse thing to do is start a fight!
  • adapt your style to the party, is it classy suits and fancy cocktails or beer on the beach?

A party at home?

It’s best to see how others are planning their party before doing one on your own… That is, join an existing social media group, learn the ins & outs before you start your own community. The analysis step is critical before venturing in social media – at the risk of losing control and ending up with a destroyed living room – and reputation.

  • identify the needs and expectations of attendees based on their behavior at previous parties;
  • set objectives: party size, who to invite (or not!), type of services, networking and/or reputation building opportunities, etc;
  • define the values you care about to set the tone and limits of what is acceptable.

We will also want to know:

  • are there ongoing conversations outside of the formal party?
  • if so, what is the importance of those (volume) and are they frequent and recent?
  • what is the tone of those conversations (sentiment analysis)?
  • are the topics always closely related or going all over the place? (focus)

Once we’ve looked at all of this, we can set up our partying strategy. Should we really make our own or join another event – build a brand new Facebook page or join an existing group? Should we go all over the place and join every party – every social network platform? Maybe instead of putting all of your energy on social media, on a big party, you should improve your existing website or blog and add some features like voting, comments, voice of customer – make it a better place for everyone to visit more often?

Who should handle your party?

If you want to be the organizer, you need to make sure you have the time to plan, but also be a good host and entertain your guests. You can always hire a consultant to help out, but will this person know and care as much as you do about your guests? Getting advice and help from professionals is important, but no one else can fake your genuine and unique personality.

Your take

When you think of organizing a party, does it fit your social media strategy? What are the other tricks we could learn from this analogy?

  • Christopher Berry

    Great post and sage advice.

    Lurking is a key behavior that typically precedes participation. Not all lurkers turn into engagers. Many people decide that a given community isn’t just for them.

    Marketers are people too. They might dress up in clothing that has all the livery of branding, but they’re people. And they should lurk too.

    They should think about what they want to get from the party, and, what they’re going to to give to get.

    Don’t bore, entertain.
    Don’t trash, help.
    Be memorable.

    Be invited again.

    It’s a great metaphor, thank you.

    • Stephane Hamel

      Thanks
      Christopher – good point about the lurkers… people enjoying the ambiance and
      having a good time (learning, watching, and maybe having side conversations).
      Not everyone is necessarily willing to jump on the dance floor (write articles,
      make comments). But they are important too.

  • Martin

    Stéphane,

    I would like to relate your post to my own 40th surprise party when you are exposed to all your friends without any notice and have to deliver a true performance on the spot no matter how stressful your work week has been, how much attention your kids want in all this noise and personally thank every guest for their efforts of keeping quiet for weeks and most of all my wife who made it all happen.

    Then you go to bed happy and think “How much of all this will end up on Facebook, Youtube, Google + etc. and do I have any control over it?”

    The answer is – as you mention it clearly – no, it’s on their camera, iPhone, Nexus S and they will do whatever they want with the content. If they are true friends the damage will be joyful and we will laugh for many years to come.

    Thanks for sharing this great post

    Martin
    http://www.360decision.com

    • Stephane Hamel

      First – congrats for your big 40! :)

      To continue our little analogy: once the party is going on, we might not control every aspects of it – there is bound to be some kind of organic growth/evolution in directions we might/might not like. One thing for sure: it will require a lot of energy, and at times, interventions we don’t really expect (think social media crisis!).